To feel sexy is a personal experience. What makes one person feel sexy may not necessarily apply to another. However, there are a few things that you can do to help cultivate a sense of confidence and sexiness within yourself. Of course there are multiple ways to embrace confidence and feel sexy such as wearing a new outfit you feel comfortable in, getting a fresh hair-do, or just by having your partner in life tell you that you are beautiful.  Those are very important, but I’m here to explain how you can take that one step further – and that’s with a boudoir photography session.

A Boudoir Photography session is where the subject is photographed in intimate and sometimes revealing poses, usually in lingerie or other sexy outfits. Boudoir sessions have become increasingly popular in recent years, and for good reason. They can be a powerful tool for boosting self-confidence and promoting self-love. In this blog, we will discuss some tips on how to feel sexy and how to incorporate a boudoir session into your self-love routine.

How To Feel Sexy Tip #1: Embrace Your Body

Feeling sexy starts with loving and accepting your body. This means embracing your curves, flaws, and imperfections. Instead of focusing on the things you don’t like about your body, focus on the things you do like. Wear clothes that make you feel good, and experiment with different styles and outfits until you find something that you feel confident in. Remember, your body is unique and beautiful in its own way, and there is no one else in the world like you.

How To Feel Sexy Tip #2: Self-Care

Self-care is an absolute crucial part of feeling sexy. I know, easier said than done right?  But it is very important to pamper yourself every once in a while to recharge those batteries and help your mental health. This means taking care of yourself both physically and mentally. Some examples of self-care include taking a bubble bath, getting a massage, practicing yoga or meditation, and getting enough sleep. When you take care of yourself, you are showing yourself love and kindness, which can help boost your self-confidence and make you feel more sexy.

How To Feel Sexy Tip #3: Confidence

Confidence is key when it comes to feeling sexy. It’s important to remember that confidence comes from within, and it’s something that you can cultivate over time. One way to boost your confidence is to practice positive self-talk. Instead of focusing on negative thoughts about yourself, try to focus on positive affirmations. For example, instead of thinking “I hate my thighs,” try thinking “My thighs are strong and beautiful.” The more you practice positive self-talk, the more confident you will become.  Here are a few tips to Finding the confidence to book a Boudoir session.

How To Feel Sexy Tip #4: Experiment with Makeup

To feel sexy doesn’t mean that you have to wear makeup. That’s not what I’m trying to say. If you are used to not wearing makeup, that’s awesome because that’s who you are. But I will tell you from experience and of the women who get Boudoir sessions here in the studio, once that professional makeup is applied and they look in the mirror, they instantly get a boost of confidence. They’ve never seen themselves like that and they start to feel sexy, confident, and even more excited to do their photoshoot.  Experiment with different makeup looks until you find something that makes you feel confident and beautiful. Don’t be afraid to try bold and daring looks, and remember that makeup should be fun and empowering.

How To Feel Sexy Tip #5: Find Your Inner Goddess

Feeling sexy is all about tapping into your inner goddess. This means embracing your femininity and owning your sexuality. One way to do this is to practice sensual dance or movement. You can take a dance class or practice at home, and use music to help you get in touch with your body and your sensuality. Another way to tap into your inner goddess is to practice self-pleasure. This can help you become more comfortable with your body and your sexuality, which can help boost your confidence and make you feel more sexy.  Now incorporating that into a boudoir session takes it to the next level. Stepping out of your comfort zone with a boudoir session will be one of the best decisions you’ve ever made.

Now that we’ve discussed some tips on how to feel sexy, let’s talk about how to incorporate a boudoir session into your self-love routine.

1. Choose the Right Photographer

The first step in planning a boudoir session is to choose the right photographer. Look for someone who specializes in boudoir photography and who has a style that you love. It’s important to choose a photographer who you feel comfortable with, as boudoir photography can be a vulnerable and intimate experience. Finding the right Boudoir photographer is key with your final decision. You need to find someone who you trust and your vision aligns with theirs with their particular editing style.

2. Choose Your Outfits

You looking to feel sexy in a whole different light? Choosing your outfits is an important part of planning your boudoir session. Look for lingerie or other sexy outfits that make you feel confident and beautiful. Don’t be afraid to try different styles and colors until you find something that you love. Remember, this is all about embracing your femininity so go bold and try out different looks. Your boudoir photographer will help you along the way. Here are tips on Lingerie For Your Body Type that might help you narrow it down to your perfect match.

The image above is part of a Bridal Boudoir session.